Anyways I guess you could try and cram in sockets for both SSD1289 and S6D1121. It might be possible.
Also if you're interested in backlight control, you might want to add a 3.3V LDO to the backlight and expose it's SHDN pin since the S6D1121 board doesn't have it.
Also on the eBay site from where you(and myself)/bought that LCD From seems to be selling another 3.2" module having same pinout as the S6D1121.

